- date the kind of people who will still respect you when you no longer love them
- date the kind of people who will still respect you when they no longer love you
- do not waste your emotional capacities on people whose respect for you is conditional
There’s a girl at my work who is literally in love with every black guy she sees (she herself is not black). There were some girls who came in and asked if she was black herself, and after they left she told me she was really offended. I asked her why someone thinking she was black would even make her mad and she couldn’t come up with an answer.
And I just..
Yeah she’s tired of crazy bitches on tumblr, but she’ll be back soon.